In reality no one has a perfect life. Everyone encounters difficulties in their lives, and we often don't know what challenges others are facing.
I believe everyone is born with an innate desire to be happy, but for most of us life deals us blows that eat away at our happiness and lead us to act in ways that are less than acceptable at times. It is easy to judge people from a perspective of anger, hate, or envy, but we also have the ability to change our reactions to love and compassion.
I am as guilty as the next person when it comes to jumping to conclusions about the kinds of lives others live, so I have vowed to work harder at treating everyone I meet with more love, patience, tolerance, and care.
Think what a wonderful world it would be if we all treated each other with compassion.